After making a careful study, seeking wise
counsel and engaging in long, thoughtful discussions, the Council of Wiser Lake
Chapel has decided to continue the policy of welcoming the children of believing
families to eat the Lord's Supper with us.
While this has been the informal practice for some time, the Council, after
its consideration, has made this the formal policy of the church by adopting the
following statement:
By their baptism, covenant children are admitted to full communion in the church, including participation in the Lord's Supper. The Council will encourage and assist parents as they explain to their covenant children the meaning and significance of the sacraments to the Christian life.
Objections Answered
Since this action potentially raises many questions, the Council has
considered the following possible objections and prepared brief answers:
Q. Will all children automatically be included
in the Lord's Supper?
A. No. This whole discussion is about the children of believing parents --
children who were baptized and are growing up in Christian homes. We call these
children "Covenant Children" because of their unique position: God includes them
in His promises to His people.
The children of unbelievers are not part of those promises until they understand
the gospel and trust Jesus as their Savior. At that time they are to be
baptized, joined to the church and admitted to this sacrament.
Q. Where does this idea come from --children taking Communion?
A. It comes from the Old Testament where the children of God's people ate the
Passover meal with the whole family (there was nothing else to eat that night).
The Lord's Supper has now replaced the Passover as the covenant meal, but these
covenant children should continue to participate with their parents.
Q. But we live in New Testament times; hasn't everything changed?
A. Certainly there have been many changes, but we should not change things that
God has not told us to change. If He no longer wants the children of his people
to worship in this way, where in the Bible did He say so? If, on the other
hand, He never changed that policy, we should not change it either.
Q. But can children really understand the meaning of the Lord's Supper?
A. No one can completely understand the meaning of the Lord's Supper, but
admittedly, most children will understand less than their parents. However, God
gave us this sacrament as a means of grace --a tool to build up our faith.
Certainly that's how it worked in the Old Testament feasts: when a child asked,
"Father, why do we celebrate this," they were to be told of what God had done
for them -- the things remembered in the feast. So, in some ways this sacrament
is even more appropriate for children than it is for adults, for it is a picture
bigger than words --the way we often teach our children.
Q. Isn't this quite a change from how Christians have always done this?
A. Interestingly, it is not. There is evidence that infants and small children
participated in the Lord's Supper for the first twelve centuries after Christ,
and even more recently in some circles.
Q. But isn't this inconsistent with Reformed Theology?
A. Reformed Theology teaches us to follow the Holy Scriptures wherever they lead
us, and thus to constantly reform the church. In that sense, anything that is
changed because a more Biblical way is discovered, is Reformed!
But, admittedly, child-communion has not been the normal practice of Reformed
Churches. Unfortunately, the Reformed practice has been largely based on an
un-challenged misstatement by John Calvin concerning the practice of the ancient
church (Institutes, IV, 19:4 with footnote #7 admitting the error).
Q. Don't children have to make profession of faith before they can be
admitted to the Lord's Table?
A. When adult unbelievers hear the gospel, repent of their sins and trust in
Christ the Savior, they are to be publicly baptized and thus, by this profession
of faith, they are admitted to the church -- including participation in the
Lord's Supper. The Bible has many examples of this conversion of sinners to
saints.
But when we look in the Bible for instruction or example of Covenant Children
going through some confirmation rite, making some formal profession of faith or
having some conversion experience, we look in vain. Certainly all of us need to
be professing our faith every day in our words and actions inside and outside
the church. But in the Bible there is no "profession of faith", by which
circumcised/baptized children are admitted to the Passover/communion meal. It
just isn't in the Bible!
Q. What about the exhortation to "examine yourself" before participating in
the Lord's Supper (I Corinthians 11:28). Doesn't this assume that a child is
old enough to understand the meaning of the Supper and his relationship to it?
A. In that passage, The Apostle Paul is not addressing the question of who
should participate; he is addressing a particular problem: they were taking the
Supper lightly. Children, likewise, need to be taught from this passage the
seriousness of trampling over the holy ground of this sacrament.
But to argue that children are excluded by this exhortation to examine oneself,
is the same as arguing that children are excluded from baptism by the
exhortations to "repent and be baptized" or "believe and be baptized." Those
arguments ignore the long-standing commands of the Bible that children of
believers are to be included in the covenant life of God's people, including the
sacraments.
Q. What if children "go astray" as teenagers? Shouldn't we wait to see if
they are going to really believe or not?
A. We have erroneously assumed that children would go astray and "sow their wild
oats" during their youth. That has become a self-fulfilling prophecy. But the
Bible never assumes that; indeed it commands us to be diligent to train and warn
against it. In fact, many of the Biblical heroes of the faith are young men and
women (probably teenagers) who we would just assume were not mature enough yet
to make profession of faith! Consider Joseph, faithful alone in Egypt; David,
trusting God, writing Psalms and killing Goliath as a shepherd boy; Daniel and
his young friends, standing up to King Nebuchadnezzar; and the Virgin Mary,
undoubtedly a teenager but teaching all of us about faithful submission to God.
With our traditional practices probably none of these would have been permitted
to make profession of faith yet! It is time we expect our young people to be
faithful, train them to that end, and include them in the means of grace which
God has appointed.
Q. But aren't we supposed to "fence the table" --to guard it and make sure
that it is not defiled by those who do not believe?
A. Yes we are. But the Lord Jesus commanded us: "Let the little children come
to Me, do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these."
He also taught us that the greatest in the kingdom, indeed the only people in
the kingdom, are those who come as little children. Now if the Lord included
little children in His sacraments, as we know he did in the Passover, but we
exclude them, we find ourselves working against Christ.
Q. Isn't this really just superstition: thinking that the sacrament has some
magical value even if children don't comprehend it?
A. No, it was the rise of superstitious views of the sacrament (not one crumb of
bread could be dropped because it was Christ's body) that prompted the church to
begin to exclude their covenant